Love Language Quiz

1. What makes you feel most loved?
2. • A) Hearing someone say, "I appreciate you" or "You’re amazing."
   • B) Someone helping you with tasks or chores.
   • C) Receiving a thoughtful gift that shows someone was thinking of you.
   • D) Spending quality, uninterrupted time with someone.
   • E) Being hugged, kissed, or having your hand held.
3. What do you value most in a relationship?
4. • A) Words of encouragement and kindness.
   • B) Actions that show love and support.
   • C) Receiving surprises or tokens of affection.
   • D) Having meaningful conversations or shared activities.
   • E) Physical affection and closeness.
5. If you’re feeling stressed, what helps the most?
6. • A) A reassuring pep talk or comforting words.
   • B) Someone pitching in to ease your load.
   • C) A small surprise, like your favorite snack or a handwritten note.
   • D) Spending uninterrupted time with someone who listens.
   • E) A warm hug or physical connection.
7. How do you like to celebrate special occasions?
8. • A) Hearing heartfelt words in a card or toast.
   • B) Having someone take care of details or help plan the day.
   • C) Receiving a meaningful gift that feels personal.
   • D) Sharing the day with someone and creating memories together.
   • E) Celebrating with affectionate gestures like hugs or kisses.
9. What makes you feel most connected to someone?
10. • A) When they frequently express how much they appreciate or care about you.
    • B) When they do thoughtful things to make your life easier.
    • C) When they give you something special, no matter the size or cost.
    • D) When they prioritize spending quality time with you.
    • E) When they’re physically affectionate.
11. If you had to choose, what would you miss most in a relationship?
12. • A) Hearing affirming or loving words.
    • B) Having someone help or support you when needed.
    • C) Receiving thoughtful gifts that show someone’s care.
    • D) Spending focused, quality time with someone.
    • E) Experiencing physical touch like hugs or kisses.

• Count how many times you selected each letter:
• • A = Words of Affirmation
  • B = Acts of Service
  • C = Receiving Gifts
  • D = Quality Time
  • E = Physical Touch

Scoring: The letter you chose the most represents your primary love language. You might have two equally strong love languages if there's a tie!

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