Single Dating Engaged

For the first time in history, the average age for an American woman having her first child, 26, is younger than the average age of her first marriage, 27. More children than ever are growing up in fatherless homes, despite the overwhelming evidence that in every measurable way this is bad for the child. The Center for Disease Control also recently reported a dramatic rise in sexually transmitted disease nationwide. In Rhode Island alone, since the onset of online dating, reported cases of Syphilis has risen 79%, and HIV has increased by 33%.

There’s no reason in the world why you can’t have that fine woman on the other side of the room. If you were aware of her body language, and had you been prepared mentally, you’d know exactly how to seduce her. If you had listened to Alpha Male Dating: The Essential Playbook, you wouldn’t be across the room right now, not way over there, staring at her like an imbecile.

In a society where everyone is supposedly more connected, why do more people than ever feel so lonely? Even as marriage rates decline, studies show that most single adults still hope to get married. But how can we navigate life and love in this disconnected culture? Has social media eroded the institutions that brought us together—and the deeper emotional intimacy they provided?