I'm fairly disappointed that our listener base hasn't worked very hard to help Ally out in her search for sex with a dominant older man. Maybe they don't exist? Or maybe our listener base consists largely of folks who just want that vicarious experience, not the sweet escape.

We solider on though, discussing Diddy's behavior and how that compares to other men who have found themselves in such compromising situations. We tackle the orgasm gap and the true percentage of women who can orgasm through penetration alone.

Ally waxes poetic about her love for deep, cervix-hammering penetration from a real penis. And, should men initiate dominant play when kissing early in a relationship, or is it too risky?

Here are links to the articles discussed early in the episode:

https://ymmv.me/179/orgasm-gap

https://ymmv.me/179/never

https://ymmv.me/179/condom

https://ymmv.me/179/diddy

We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:

https://ymmv.me/179/choking

https://ymmv.me/179/fwb

https://ymmv.me/179/video

https://ymmv.me/179/deep

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Let's cut right to the chase: Ally is looking for a certain kind of man to satisfy her needs, and she's not finding him. This isn't your typical female ask for a life partner or a long-term relationship. It's more a recognition that she's had difficulty finding someone who can get the job done for her.

Which brings up an interesting difficulty that women can face: It's actually difficult to find out, early in a relationship, how a guy is going to perform in bed. Or, indeed, if he'll be able to perform at all. And, I suspect dick pix are no help, as they're often taken in a flaccid state, or taken from an angle that just doesn't do justice to the man's true stature.

Along the way, we discuss Peyronie's disease, some listener feedback on the podcast and listener questions. And, Mike informs Ally that none other than Bill Clinton, according to a sexual harassment lawsuit by Paula Jones, suffers from Peyronie's Disease. It's an epidemic!

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I really appreciate Ally's choice to talk in detail about her submissive proclivities prior to a hoped-for sexual encounter this weekend. I'm not sure how common it really is for women to like men to be dominant and/or aggressive during sex. As she points out, it's definitely common enough to make successes out of movies like 50 Shades of Grey.

Regardless, it's a welcome reprieve from the questions we more typically field: Men wanting to be pegged and women wanting out of the gender binary.

Our free-form discussion also touched on how men and women select mates, whether people naturally gravitate toward people of their own ethnicity, and the differences between physical and psychological dominance. Ultimately, one has to wonder what feelings people are working out when entering into these dominant and submissive situations.

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