Are you a late bloomer wondering, “How the hell do I even start dating?”

In this episode, Lily breaks down the exact 6-step roadmap to go from anxious and avoidant to confident and aligned in your love life. You’ll learn how to drop shame, claim your essence-based preferences, use dating apps with boundaries, and build your IRL dating strategy—messy and awkward and powerful.

Here’s how to work with Lily:

✨ On Demand Training: 3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner as a Late Bloomer

✨ Buy her book: Thank You More Please: https://datebrazen.com/book

✨ Download the free "Create Your Essence-Based Preferences" Guide HERE

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In this kickoff to the Late Bloomer Series, Lily gets real about how to tell a date you’ve never been in a relationship—without spiraling, oversharing, or self-abandoning. If you’ve ever felt behind in love, this episode will help you embrace your story, communicate with confidence, and stop making your dating history mean something it doesn’t.

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Get on the waitlist for Main Character Dating: https://www.datebrazen.com/waitlist

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Are you tired of living for everyone else's expectations... and ready to step into your own dang spotlight? 🎬✨

In this behind-the-scenes episode, I’m sharing practical tools to stop people-pleasing for good — and start building the stupidly joyful, self-trusting, main-character life you’re meant for.

Inside this episode:

• What people-pleasing really is (it’s deeper than being “too nice”)

• Why releasing people-pleasing is so damn hard (and why it’s not your fault)

• How to start rebuilding self-trust in small, powerful ways

• Three practical steps you can take today to enter your Main Character Era

If you’re feeling the heart pull to live bigger, braver, and more joyfully — the doors to Main Character Life are open right now.

🎟 Apply for Main Character Life (closing May 2!): HERE

This is my six-month small group mastermind where you'll learn to:

• Release people-pleasing as your default

• Build rock-solid self-trust

• Take massive, messy action toward your dreams

• Create a stupidly joyful life that finally feels like yours

Work with Lily:

Learn how to work with me: https://www.datebrazen.com/

Order my book, “Thank You, More Please”: https://www.datebrazen.com/book

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