People Together People

By: Shivani Pde
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  • Self Love with lies we live in 🙄 NAVIGATING the deceit our heart weaves WE hold true which ends in multiple heartbreaks that we endure WHILE nursing mental health with the CGI psychologist in our brains WHILE doom scrolling & tiktoking MINDLESSLY REELING under the pressure to be perfect COVERING our gaping wounds with the internet that buffers & smiley stickers
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  • Cancel Hook Up Culture

    Cancel Hook Up Culture
    Nov 17 2024

    The Hookup Culture Trap: Why It is Time to Swipe Left for Good

    What Even Is Hookup Culture? For the unversed Hookup culture is that pervasive idea that casual sex is the norm—no strings attached, no feelings, just instant gratification. Wham bam thank you maam, score brooooo, thank you next ,left her on read broooo after last night hahahha score…On the surface, it looks liberating and wow so freeing right ? SO COOL , SO HIP & HAPPENING , You do you, right? But dig deeper, like I said earlier, don’t be surface level, be deeper, think deeper , about the root , the cause & its eventual negative effect on the long term and you’ll see it’s more about escapism than empowerment. It encourages shallow connections over meaningful bonds, treating intimacy like a commodity instead of something, well, intimate, between two people who make it special & make it mean something, after you have sex, it should make you feel nice & it should not make you feel empty from inside just like when you take a chemical drug.

    And now Why Is hooking up So Popular? The rise of dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, ahh grinder and the infinite swipe has made hookup culture almost unavoidable. Add in pop culture & the celebrities hyping it up as cool and modern, and voila, there you go—you’ve got a generation conditioned to chase instant gratification at the cost of genuine honest connection. Hooking up is easy, it is convenient, and, let’s face it, yes it is for sure less scary than putting your heart on the line. So what people are doing now is protecting their heart from being broken.

    But here is the catch: convenience is not always good for you. Sometimes, convenience might be good but not always, for example Fast food is convenient, too, but you would not want to live on it, right? You want home cooked meals for your own physical health for the long term.

    The Emotional Fallout Let us get real: hookup culture is a breeding ground for emotional damage. We are talking feelings of emptiness, lack of self-worth, and even depression. Studies show that casual sex often leads to regret and a sense of being used, especially among young people who buy into the myth that sex without commitment is equal to freedom.

    But freedom from what, exactly? Nobody has caged you so What do you want to be free from? Free from genuine intimacy? Free from vulnerability? Free from love? Don’t you want love? The truth is, we are not escaping anything. We are just numbing ourselves to what it means to be truly connected to another person.

    Now How Hook up culture is Hurting Society at large Now, let us zoom out and look at the bigger picture. Hookup culture is not just messing up people—it is destabilizing the very fabric of relationships…. in society.

    Why This Narrative Needs to Change Here is the thing: intimacy is not just about physicality. It is about trust, understanding, and vulnerability, you know you are opening not only your body but also your soul to that person. Hookup culture robs us of that depth, leaving us with a hollow version of connection.

    We need to start valuing emotional intimacy as much as physical intimacy. That means redefining what is “cool” in modern dating.

    Spoiler: It is not ghosting someone after a one-night stand. It is building something real and lasting.

    The Role of Media and Influencers Media and influencers play a massive role in perpetuating hookup culture. Think about it: how often do you see rom-coms where the hookup turns into a fairytale romance? Reality check, it does not ever, hook up is hook up, wham bam thank you maam

    We need a new narrative—one that celebrates commitment, vulnerability, and emotional intelligence. And yes, influencers, I’m looking at you. Let’s start a trend where being in a healthy, committed relationship is the new IT THING.

    How Do We Cancel Hookup Culture? Cancelling hookup culture doesn’t mean cancelling casual dating entirely—it means shifting the focus back to respect, honesty, and intention.

    Final Thoughts Hookup culture promises freedom, but what it delivers is emptiness. It’s time to move past this shallow trend and build a society that values real, meaningful connections.

    So, what do you think? Are you ready to swipe left on hookup culture? Let me know your thoughts—I’d love to hear from you. And remember, the change starts with us.

    Outro Thanks for tuning in to The Thought Stirrer. If this stirred something in you, don’t forget to share it with your friends & family and let’s get the conversation rolling. Until next time, stay thoughtful and stay connected, stay moisturised, stay hydrated & stay blessed. Love you all , bye
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    13 mins
  • We Don't Need Men Part 2

    We Don't Need Men Part 2
    Nov 15 2024
    PART 2 DOSE Resilience Under Pressure: Men as Leaders and Protectors Stepping away from purely physical contributions, we see men traditionally taking on the role of protectors and decision-makers under pressure. Think of firefighters rushing into burning buildings, soldiers on the front lines, or first responders during crises. There is a cultural and psychological element to the masculine role in protection and defense that has shaped society's expectations. These roles often require individuals to act under extreme stress, without hesitation, making life-and-death decisions in mere seconds. It is not that women cannot or do not serve in these capacities, but men are still the majority in these lines of work. Men have been trained, socialized, and even hardwired, some would argue, to take on these burdens. It is a role not taken lightly and one that brings with it immense responsibility. For a long time, society has been structured in a way that encouraged men to step up as providers and protectors, and that traditional sense of responsibility is still relevant today. Even though we are working toward a society where both genders can comfortably share these roles, the intrinsic drive men must provide for their families and communities remains a powerful force. Men are critical to the growth and development of families, and their presence provides stability, structure, and support that positively impacts the lives of those around them. Now, in the modern dialogue, there is a narrative that has become more prevalent—that men are somehow expendable or unnecessary. Some segments of modern feminism argue that women “don’t need men” or that men are less essential to societal progress. And while empowerment for women is important, the idea that men are not necessary is both inaccurate and unfair. Men and women bring different strengths, skills, and perspectives, and it is through this balance that we find real progress. Just as women are irreplaceable in countless ways, men are irreplaceable in others. Society benefits most when both men and women are respected, valued, and allowed to contribute in ways that align with their strengths. It is worth considering that society does not benefit from sidelining any group. When men’s contributions are downplayed or dismissed, we lose out on the strength and resilience they bring to the table. The idea that men are somehow not needed runs counter to the truth that both genders are interconnected and interdependent in ways that drive human progress. From fathers who provide guidance and protection to sons who carry on legacies, men’s roles in the family are deeply significant. Their presence fosters a sense of security, teaches discipline, and provides a foundation for growth. We are at our best when we embrace the contributions of both men and women. The reality is that we need each other. It is about honouring the strengths each gender brings without diminishing the other. Men’s contributions to society—from the physical and protective to the innovative and nurturing—play a fundamental role in building and sustaining the world we know today. And as we move forward, acknowledging and celebrating these contributions will only help us build a stronger, more balanced world where everyone’s role is respected and valued. In the end, men are integral to the fabric of society. Their labour, leadership, support, and innovations are essential components of a thriving, balanced world. It is not about whether we can live without men or women; it is about recognizing that we are all interconnected, and together, we have the power to create a world that respects, values, and celebrates each person’s unique contributions. Countering the “We Don’t Need Men” Narrative In today’s age, the phrase “we don’t need men” has taken on a life of its own. In the spirit of independence, some people suggest that men have become expendable, that their roles in society are diminishing. However, taking a step back, one might argue that society thrives not on independence but on interdependence. It is about recognizing that both men and women bring something unique to the table. We are different—not better or worse, but different—and our differences often allow us to complement one another in powerful ways. The biological, psychological, and even cultural distinctions between men and women create a complex tapestry of roles, responsibilities, and contributions. While modern narratives focus on self-sufficiency, there’s strength in acknowledging that we are stronger together. It is not just about survival; it is about flourishing as a society, embracing the roles that each person brings to the community. The masculine energy, in a way, contributes a certain drive, resilience, and tenacity that is invaluable. It is this energy that pushes men to excel in areas that are high-risk, high-stress, and physically demanding. And while we champion the importance of ...
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    13 mins
  • We Don't Need Men

    We Don't Need Men
    Nov 15 2024

    Women DONT NEED MEN !
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    14 mins

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