If you often find yourself saying 'yes' when you want to say no - despite 'knowing' it's ok to say no and to set healthy boundaries, then this episode will help you understand why it feels so difficult. Because despite the advice out there to 'just let them' 'let them be upset with you.. ' 'just say no' it's not as simple as that is it!? If it was we'd all be honouring our needs without feeling guilty and anxious about it!

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This episode is for the girl you used to be - the one who learned to be agreeable, quiet, and easy so she could stay accepted and feel safe. The one who was called “shy” but was actually scanning the room. The one who hid her bigness to avoid being “too much.”
If you became what others needed, but lost touch with who you really are, this is your invitation to gently unmask. You were never too much or not enough. You were adapting. And now, you get to return to the version of you that was never broken - just hidden.

Take the quiz! What's Your People-Pleaser Personality? and discover my 6 step method to unlocking Clarity, Change and Freedom so you can say yes to the real you - without anxiety and guilt.

Get your FREE Video Visibility Toolkit - discover how to go from cringe to confidence on video

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In today’s episode, I’m sharing a really personal moment that completely caught me off guard - and shifted something deep within me.

Despite all the therapy, training, and self-awareness I’ve built over the years… it took one conversation with someone else to help me see a belief I’d been carrying for decades. A belief I didn’t even realise was still quietly shaping how I saw myself.

This episode is for you if you know yourself — you’ve done the work, you understand your patterns — and yet you still find yourself stuck in the same cycles:
people-pleasing, overthinking, avoidance, guilt.

We’ll explore why awareness isn’t always enough, how old stories can still run the show without us realising, and what it actually takes to start shifting the patterns that keep you stuck — even if you think you’dve already worked through them.

Want to uncover why it's so hard to make those changes you've been wanting to make? DM me on Instagram about how to get started or check out an UNLOCK Clarity session.

Take the quiz! What's Your People-Pleaser Personality? and discover my 6 step method to unlocking Clarity, Change and Freedom so you can say yes to the real you - without anxiety and guilt.

Get your FREE Video Visibility Toolkit - discover how to go from cringe to confidence on video

Join me over on Instagram for regular updates, posts and talks about all things people-pleasing and being visible and feel free to DM me any content ideas: https://www.instagram.com/charlotte_bailey_therapies/

Visit my website for more information, resources and details on how to work with me https://www.charlottebaileytherapies.com/