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I’m Trying, Dude.

I’m Trying, Dude.

By: Daniel Victor and Marcel Floruss
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Welcome to I’m Trying, Dude—a podcast by two friends figuring out what it really means to be comfortable in our own skin. We’re exploring a new, more open definition of masculinity, drawing from the ups and downs of relationships—whether with ourselves, partners, family, or friends. Along the way, we’ve stumbled, grown, sought therapy, and learned from mistakes (plenty of them). This isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about sharing the process. If you’ve ever felt like you’re struggling to keep it together, you’re not alone. We’re right there with you, figuring it out one day at a time.Daniel Victor and Marcel Floruss Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • Body Image: Looking Good vs. Feeling Good
    May 9 2025

    This week, we’re diving into a topic we’ve both wrestled with — body image. Dan opens up about his long history with body insecurities, unhealthy dieting, and how a childhood comment stuck with him for years. Marcel reflects on his own struggles with feeling too skinny and how the desire for external validation shaped his early fitness habits. We unpack how body image affects not just how we look, but how we feel, and why doing things for yourself is the key to healing.Whether you've felt too small, too big, or just “not enough,” this episode is for you.In this episode:Why face yoga might (or might not) be worth your moneyChildhood memories that shape adult insecuritiesThe hidden reasons behind extreme dieting and over-exercisingHow male body image issues often go unspokenWhy working out for yourself is the real game changerBuilding a body-positive mindset through self-compassionDisclaimer:This podcast reflects personal experiences and opinions and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice. If you're struggling, consider reaching out to a licensed therapist or counselor.


    🕐 Timestamps:
    00:00 Intro – Face yoga + body image preview02:50 Why Dan wanted to tackle this topic06:00 Marcel’s new morning routine shift09:40 Why men rarely discuss body image18:00 Dan’s pool party memory that changed everything22:00 Marcel’s “too skinny” story and validation trap26:50 Psychoanalyzing our younger selves31:30 Why trauma lingers silently35:00 Are you working out for yourself or others?37:10 The trap of turning insecurities into motivation39:00 Food, comfort, and the emotional side of body image45:00 Why quiet moments reveal hidden stressors47:20 Beauty standards, self-acceptance, and final takeaways

    🎥 Watch the episode on YouTube: youtube.com/@ImTryingDude
    📷 Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠@ImTryingDude⁠⁠

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    Keep trying, dudes.
    — Marcel & Dan

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    52 mins
  • The Things We Got Away With — and What They Taught Us
    May 2 2025

    This week on I'm Trying, Dude, Marcel and Daniel dive into the moments that tested their moral compass — from small things they got away with as kids to the deeper question: are we actually good people? They swap stories about books that shifted their perspective, movement and recovery journeys, and share a hilarious moment involving running, falling, and friendship.
    Tune in for laughs, reflections, and the kind of honest conversations that leave you thinking long after the episode ends.


    🕐 Timestamps:

    00:00Intro – Literature, Moral Compass, and Lunatic Energy

    02:00Marcel’s Discovery: The Need for Fuel & Recovery

    03:30Reading a Book in a Day – Veronika Decides to Die

    07:00Reflection on Life, Death, and Madness

    08:30Dan’s Reading Struggles and Audiobook Adventures

    12:30The Fantasy Audiobook Mishap (Spicy Audiobooks in Public)

    15:00Dan’s Running Fall and the Art of Laughing at Yourself

    17:00Lessons from Embarrassment and Friendship

    19:00Moral Compass Check – Subway Jumping & Chipotle Hot Sauce

    23:30Dan’s Wild Story: Paintball Drive-By (Christmas Chaos)

    30:00Marcel’s Reflection on Cheating and Weakness in Relationships

    37:00Wrap Up – Growth, Understanding, and Owning Your Actions


    🎥 Watch the episode on YouTube: youtube.com/@ImTryingDude📷 Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@ImTryingDude⁠

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    Keep trying, dudes.— Marcel & Dan

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    46 mins
  • Courage Is a Choice (And We’re Still Trying)
    Apr 25 2025

    We're back! Season 3 of I’m Trying, Dude kicks off with a deep dive into courage—what it means to show up, to try something new, to speak up, or to just sit with someone who's hurting.

    From running marathons to asking for tea on a flight (yes, really), Marcel and Dan unpack why even the smallest decisions can take courage. We also talk about burnout, acting class breakthroughs, creative doubts, emotional expression, and our eternal quest for purpose.

    If you're feeling stuck, inspired, lost, or just trying your best—this one’s for you.

    💭 Topics in this episode:
    – Courage in the mundane and extraordinary– Marcel’s marathon and injury aftermath– Dan’s acting class and emotional unlearning– Creative doubt vs. creative purpose– Being seen, asking for help, and saying no– Breathwork, Bashar, and bedtime intuition

    🕐 Timestamps:

    0:00 – Welcome back!

    3:12 – Marcel's marathon moment

    8:40 – Dan’s acting breakthrough

    12:55 – Creative work vs real impact

    21:00 – The “AI therapy” idea

    26:10 – Big dreams & new paths

    39:15 – Ask for what you need

    46:45 – Courage in small decisions

    🎥 Watch the episode on YouTube: youtube.com/@ImTryingDude
    📷 Follow us on Instagram: @ImTryingDude

    ❤️ Like the episode? Share it, rate it, or send it to a friend who’s also trying.

    Keep trying, dudes.
    — Marcel & Dan

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    50 mins
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