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I Love You, But BFFR

I Love You, But BFFR

By: India Jade
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I love you, but we need to talk, bookie. Hosted by yours truly, the one and only India (yes that’s my real name), this is the podcast where pop culture meets the realist, and baddest b*#** you know, unapologetically speaking her mind. We’re taking the most iconic, and sometimes disturbing, pop culture moments, and using them to ask the real questions: What is actually going on? Why do we even care? And what are we all thinking but not saying? Most importantly, what do these moments tell us about our own toxic habits that we try to deny? Ily, but bffr, xoxo. IG & Tik Tok: ilybutpodcastIndia Jade Social Sciences
Episodes
  • The Feminist Movement Is A Scam Designed By Rich Old Men
    May 7 2025

    I love you but, bffr the feminist movement is a scam we all fell for, actually designed by the people who want nothing more than for us to stay in our place. India is joined by a rapper, songwriter, and new actor Twelvie (he’s a man 😱), to discuss the roots of the movement, and what traditional roles mean to a progressive young man of the twenty-first century.

    Here’s what to expect from today’s controversial convo with Twelvie:

    💋Historical roots of the feminist movement, and the real reason for its agenda

    💋Evolving roles of men and women in modern relationships,

    💋The “I am the table” girlies and tradwives trends flaws

    💋How men can actually support women’s issues and equality

    💋The real reason why black male athletes run to white women

    And remember, everything I say is with love. Xoxo.

    📍 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube.

    📲 Follow @ILYButPodcast on Instagram and TikTok.

    Special Guest: Twelvie @tw3lvie on Instagram and @twelvie on TikTok

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    52 mins
  • Love or Self-Hate? Interracial Dating, Identity, & Raising Biracial Kids
    Apr 29 2025

    I love you but, bffr if you’re a black man that only dates white women you may hate your mother. India is joined by biracial marketing baddie Jordyn Messinger, to get the real tea on interracial dating, being a black girl raised by a white mama, and her theories on the infamous celebrity biracial kids *cough cough* the Kardashians.

    Here’s what to expect from today’s kiki with Jordyn:

    • Growing up with a single parent white mom as a black girl

    • Who defines identity and who is “allowed” to identify as black

    • Candace Owens, and why black women who date white men

    • Kanye West’s fetishizing of white women post his mother’s death

    • How to responsibly make biracial babies

    And remember, everything I say is with love. Xoxo.

    📍 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube

    📲 Follow @ILYButPodcast on Instagram and TikTok

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    48 mins
  • From India, With Love (Girl Math, Kanye’s Trauma, and Unc’s Tragic Downfall)
    Apr 24 2025

    Welcome to thee debut of I Love You, But BFFR—the podcast where gossip is truly spiritual work, and we say the quiet parts out loud. Hosted by India Jade (yes, that’s her real name), this first episode sets the stage.

    Here’s what to expect from the debut bookie:

    • Why men of color need to stop asking if she’s Indian

    • The moment she quit her corporate job to be a podcast bro

    • Why y’all girl maths really don’t be math at all

    • Gossip might be the modern-day gospel

    • Kanye’s “Cousins” starts meaningful convo on porn, parenting, and agency

    • Shannon Sharpe is a prime example of the corruptible nature of men who go from country bumpkin to successful

    And remember, everything I say is with love. Xoxo.

    📍 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. 📲 Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram and TikTok.

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    13 mins
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