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Good Moms Bad Choices

Good Moms Bad Choices

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If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too!

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe!

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  • Girls Are Raised, Boys Are Loved Feat. Jessie Woo
    Jun 18 2025

    This week, the Good Moms are joined by comedian, and host of "Jess A Couple Things" podcast, Jessie Woo for a layered conversation on family, culture, ambition, and accountability.

    From growing up as the oldest daughter in a strict Haitian household to finding her voice in the entertainment industry. The three chat about everything from mother wounds and cultural silence to anime porn, and Jessie's "crush" on Morgan Freeman 👀. It’s honest, hilarious, and might be exactly what you or a friend may need to hear.

    You can expect to hear:

    (04:10) Jessie shares the origins of her content career and how Haitian comedy got her noticed

    (12:35) Moving to New York, losing everything, and lying her way into her first network gig

    (19:00) Why saying “yes” when you’re not fully ready can change your life

    (23:45) The viral moment Jessie said “my mom birthed me, but didn’t f*** with me”… and the internet backlash that followed

    (31:20) How mother-daughter relationships shape adult intimacy, boundaries, and the way we receive love

    (36:55) A revealing brunch with Jessie’s mom and her man that turned into an unexpected emotional breakthrough, but revealed that there is still work to do...

    (44:40) Why first-born daughters are often raised, and not "loved"

    (51:10)sibling resentment

    (58:00) Cultural expectations for Caribbean girls vs boys and why her upbringing made her resilient, but guarded

    (1:06:45) Thoughts on validation, emotional gaslighting, and the trap of performative parenting

    (1:13:10) Jessie on love, faith, titties, and why Morgan Freeman might secretly be fine

    (1:20:00) Bad Choice of the Week: anime porn, laptops, and kids who know too much

    (1:25:15) Affirmation of the Week: “I have everything I need to be the best me this world should receive”

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    Connect With Us:

    @GoodMoms_BadChoices

    @TheGoodVibeRetreat

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    @WatchErica

    @Milah_Mapp

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    53 mins
  • Grief and Fatherhood Feat. Tony Baker
    Jun 11 2025

    Happy Father's Day Tribe!

    Welcome back to Good Mom Bad Choices! This week we are joined by comedian, actor and voice over extraordinaire ‪@TonyBakercomedy‬! Tune into the conversation as Tony confesses his favorite sex position, porn category, journey to Hollywood as an extra.

    In this week’s episode, we switch gears and deep dive into fatherhood, grief, and the tragic loss of Tony’s child in 2021. Tony shares advice to those who experienced the death of a child and the importance of loving our loved ones out loud while they are here. This was a hilarious and heartfelt conversation you don’t want to miss. In this episode, you can expect to hear:

    • Journey to Stardom: Tony Baker talks Transformers, stand-up comedy, his road to Hollywood (6:00)
    • The Good Mom Effect: The ladies and Tony discuss Baby Boy roleplaying, cursing during sex, and bringing out your animal side (17:30)
    • Theater 101: The Good Moms and Tony have fun with voiceover improv (34:00)
    • Trigger: Tony talks fatherhood, favorite positions, and interracial dating (45:15)
    • Men Heal Too: Tony shares his experience navigating the grief of losing a child and finding forgiveness (1:04:45)

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    Watch This episode & more on YouTube!

    Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases.

    Join our private Facebook group!

    Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously!

    Submit your questions

    Connect With Us:

    @GoodMoms_BadChoices

    @TheGoodVibeRetreat

    @Good.GoodMedia

    @WatchErica

    @Milah_Mapp

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    1 hr and 39 mins
  • Healing In The Hoeing Feat. Mandii B
    Jun 4 2025

    This week, Erica and Milah are joined by podcaster, friend, and newwwww author, Mandii B!!

    The ladies talk about the process and revelations of writing the book No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power” written by Mandii B and WeezyWTF.

    The three chat about the unexpected connection between shame and true sexual empowerment, the hidden ways women their worth to male validation, and why the choices you made in the past shape who you're becoming.

    You can expect to hear:

    • Why Mandii believes you can’t talk about sexual liberation without talking about shame
    • An honest conversation about dating married men and the emotional logic behind it
    • How childhood shaped Mandii’s views on relationships, money, and emotional survival
    • The hidden trauma of stealthing and the struggle to name sexual assault
    • What a sober, celibate era reveals about your relationship with safety and sex
    • The surprising lessons behind Mandii’s first (and worst) pegging experience
    • A chaotic but consensual Whorie story you won’t forget (involving pasta and group play)

    Support Black Authorsssss!! Pre-order your copy of the book, No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power” written by Mandii B and WeezyWTF.

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    CONTENT WARNING:

    **At several points in this episode, the conversation touches on experiences of sexual trauma and assault. We encourage you to listen in a way that feels safe for you.**

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    Watch This episode & more on YouTube!

    Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases.

    Join our private Facebook group!

    Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously!

    Submit your questions

    Connect With Us:

    @GoodMoms_BadChoices

    @TheGoodVibeRetreat

    @Good.GoodMedia

    @WatchErica

    @Milah_Mapp

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    Got a lover? Join our Couples Retreat

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    1 hr and 15 mins
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