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Men Chase, Women Choose

The Neuroscience of Meeting, Dating, Losing Your Mind, and Finding True Love

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Men Chase, Women Choose

By: Dawn Maslar
Narrated by: Suzanne Elise Freeman
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Love is one of our strongest biological drives, but it can be frustratingly elusive and misunderstood. Music, literature, and movies are filled with common folklore about love, and millions of TV viewers tune in to shows like The Bachelor and read the latest relationship tome with one simple hope: to uncover some nugget of mystic wisdom that will help them understand the exciting, addictive, insane experience called love.

Men Chase, Women Choose is the first book to offer cutting-edge research that explains how the brain works when two people first meet, start to date, fall in love, and then move into real long-term love. Maslar's unique approach brings together the latest and most relevant neurological, physiological, and biochemical research on the science of love while incorporating stories and examples of composite characters based on participants of her popular classes and seminars. She explains that love is actually neural activity as well as the presence or absence of certain neurotransmitters that bathe the brain, and it follows a precisely timed path of four easy-to-understand phases: the exciting norepinephrine-charged meeting phase; the addictive dopamine dating phase; the insane falling in love and losing your mind phase; and finally the safe, warm and wonderful true long-term love phase.

For the past decade Maslar has made it her mission to learn all she can about the science behind falling in love, including its evolutionary benefits. Her goal - and the purpose of this book - is to help men and women find and maintain love by understanding and applying the science behind it.

The bottom line? We actually can have long-lasting, nourishing, exciting, passionate love with little or no risk!

©2016 Dawn Maslar (P)2016 Vibrance Press
Human Sexuality Love, Dating & Attraction Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Neuroscience & Neuropsychology Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships Dating Human Brain Neuroscience Love

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Really loved this - well told, interesting and incredibly valuable. Highly recommended to anyone who wants to understand the science behind love

SO SO good

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Written from a woman’s perspective but also useful for a man. The science was insightful but not too complicated the general public to understand. I feel too many assumptions related to evolution rather than the facts and science evidence. A good book for therapists help clients understand some of the science of human behaviour

Interesting and practical

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Cringed and nodded all the way through as I heard all my mistakes described in detail. If only?? Still I know now thank you Dawn.

Brilliant, so informative

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Along with men are from mars and women are from Venus this book should be a must read for EVERYONE. It completely de myths all those made up ideas and truly explains not just what’s going on but what you can do. Amazing! Thank you

Absolutely fascinating a must read!

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