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Kill the Unicorn

By: Emma Hayes, Michael Calvin - contributor
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How do you get the best out of people? What does it take to make a team thrive?

Few people know the answers better than Emma Hayes. As the coach of Chelsea FC Women, she has led the club to 14 major trophies. She is a widely celebrated figure in sports media as a woman starting to get equal recognition in this space, and has been named TV pundit of the year by both Broadcast Magazine and the Sports Journalists Association. In 2021 she was named Best Football Coach by FIFA, in 2016 she was named MBE in the Queen’s 90th birthday honours list, and in 2022 was awarded an OBE for her services to football.

In her first ever book, written in collaboration with internationally best-selling author Michael Calvin, Emma shares her experience of managing a high-performance football team to draw out life lessons and techniques that listeners can apply to their own professional and personal circumstances.

Narrated by Emma herself, it’s also a fascinating look into the world of women’s football told by a woman at the centre of it, with frank, entertaining anecdotes from on and off the field.

©2023 Emma Hayes OBE c/o The Blair Partnership LLP (P)2023 Audible, Ltd Coaching Football (Soccer) Sports Women Inspiring Thought-Provoking

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I enjoyed this very much. Emma relates per personal life to her work life, which we don’t often get to hear about. I liked seeing the impact of one side of life on the other and vice versa. I found I had to listen to it at x1.35 speed as it was a little slow in pace, but the content was very well structured.

Relatable and real

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I’ve loved every single word of this book, Emma is indeed very inspirational, her calm, confident way of going through life and her shared wisdom is brilliant. I would highly recommend to any leader / potential leader even if football isn’t your bag.

Absolutely Fantastic

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I found this book very informative and powerful. The way Emma talks about her life experiences, her wealth of knowledge (both on and off the pitch) and the amazing work she is doing to progress not only the women’s game but highlighting the other side of it with regards to injury prevention, the issues around the menstrual cycle, parenting and how to train a positive mindset it just amazing. This book is a must read/listen, and it is a book I will listen to again and again

Honest and very interesting, must read for everyone not just leaders

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Insightful view of people and self management. Refreshingly honest reflective views. Makes you think and reflect about your position in the world and that of those around you.

Beyond football

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Absolutely loved it!! Engaging, interesting and informative. So well presented with honesty and transparency.

What an inspiring book!

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This was a surprisingly good book, well told and read by of one of the top women football managers in the English game. Chelsea have been massively successful in women's football and listening to Emma explain her reasoning, emotional intelligence and tactical acumen - her intelligence and team preparation shine through. As a leader, she seeks fairness, honesty and integrity from her players, which she also demands of herself - but in return she is sympathetic to the pressures, social media and temptations that the 'always on' generation face.

I replayed one or two chapters, as some of the points she made, were very pertinent and thought provoking. This is not a 'fly by the seat of your pants' manager, but someone who thinks deeply of how she can develop, prepare and help her team and individual players grow and be successful. Rather than tell lurid stories of nights out on the town living the glamorous life - Emma talks candidly of her son and being proud to be a mum, with all its ups and downs, and how she balances being a parent in a very demanding work environment.

Emma's career in football is still a work in progress, her achievements at Chelsea will stand the test of time. Whether or not she is going to manage at an even higher level, elsewhere was not discussed in any great depth - but she is a high achiever and sets high standards and goals. It is clear she is not only capable but ambitious. If the right opportunity for her talents were to arise, then she would have a difficult choice to stay or go.

Emma's work in looking after her (female) footballers to ensure their well being is central to her philosophy, in particular, to protect them during their menstrual cycle, steps she has taken are practical and pioneering. With ACL injuries in women's football being more prevalent than mens - her thoughts and experience on the subject, shine a light on a subject that should be researched in greater depth than currently. It is an issue which needs to be addressed to ensure women at all levels of the game can enjoy playing football, without the fear of a 'career' ending injury.

An enjoyable and thought provoking listen.

Advanced football manager and all-round good egg

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Interesting insight in to a leadership journey that has changed women’s sport. So many takeaways and areas to think about.

Epic book for leadership and life

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If you lead people, of which I imagine women and men of varying ages are within your workforce, this book from Emma Hayes articulates why some principles will always apply, but she will challenge your awareness and thinking into how your leadership serves and supports all people, especially the success of woman and young professionals.

Yes football is a theme but if your knowledge of the woman’s game is limited, this book is still very accessible.

Written and read with sensitivity and candour.


Emma is brilliant.

Brilliant for so many reasons

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I’m no football fan but am so pleased I listened to Emma’s book. Her personality and understanding of people (and football) introduced me to a world I now have increased respect for, women’s football. I did listen on increased speed as I found her slow delivery switched me off, all remedied at 1.25. Great book, great woman who I wish well with her future

Emotional intelligent

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The title made me wary that this may be a list of leadership platitudes but it blew me away, Emma speaks with such honesty and vulnerability and I admire her more than ever before. Truly one of the greats. It was eye opening and revelatory and particularly good on women’s bodies, health - from menstrual cycles to ACLs to anxiety - and motherhood. A must-read.

Completely brilliant

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