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I Can Save Her: The Unauthorized Guide to Misreading Trauma as Flirtation

Ruin Your Life Now, Book 24

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I Can Save Her: The Unauthorized Guide to Misreading Trauma as Flirtation

By: Dicholas Chad Pansy
Narrated by: Glen Haupt
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You’re not her therapist. You’re not her hero. You’re just a guy who misread a trauma dump as a romantic green light.

I Can Save Her: The Unauthorized Guide to Misreading Trauma as Flirtation is a brutally honest, darkly hilarious exposé of every man who thought “she’s been through a lot” meant “I have a chance.”

From the emotional wreckage of unsolicited support texts to the spiritual cosplay of playing therapist without a license, this book is a glorious takedown of the modern male savior complex. With razor-sharp wit and absolutely no room for denial, author Dicholas Chad Pansy guides you through the delusions, projections, and Instagram-softboi nonsense that turn empathy into ego theater.

Inside you’ll find:

  • A step-by-step breakdown of how you turned her sadness into your personality
  • How to stop mistaking proximity for connection and support for seduction
  • Why you keep dating “emotionally complex” women and calling it fate
  • And most importantly: how to save yourself before trying to “fix” anyone else

This is not a love story. This is a cautionary tale—for the man who thinks being emotionally available for five minutes should earn him a medal and a girlfriend.

Let go of the cape, Chad. Nobody asked you to fly in.

©2025 Dicholas Chad Pansy (P)2025 Dicholas Chad Pansy Conflict Resolution Love, Dating & Attraction Relationships Emotions Funny Witty
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