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  • By: Daisy Buchanan
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How to Be a Grown Up

By: Daisy Buchanan
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Summary

For fans of Bryony Gordon and Caitlin Moran, a comforting, witty, supportive book for real 20-something women who want to discover how they can reach the end of the 'fun' decade knowing exactly who they are.

Have you ever felt lost, anxious, panicky about adulthood? Have you ever spent a hungover Sunday crying into a bowl of cereal? Have you ever scrolled through Instagram and felt nothing but green-eyed jealousy and evil thoughts? Award-winning journalist, Grazia agony aunt and real-life big sister to five smart, stylish, stunning 20-something young women, Daisy Buchanan has been there, done that and got the vajazzle.

In How to be a Grown-Up, she dispenses all the emotional and practical advice you need to negotiate a difficult decade. Covering everything including how to become more successful and confident at work, how to feel pride in yourself without needing validation from others, how to turn rivals into mentors and how to really enjoy spending time on your own, this is a warm, kind, funny voice in the dark saying, "Honestly, don't worry. You're doing your best, and you're amazing!

©2017 Daisy Buchanan (P)2018 Audible, Ltd

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Funny and feel good with some practical advice 👍

Funny and feel good with some practical advice.

Not a how to book by any means but a fun read to make you feel a bit better about life and being shit at it!

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A lovely, warm-hearted guide to adulting

This is a millennial feminist manifesto disguised as self-help (and all the better for it)! I wish I’d had this book to read when I was in my 20s. So generous, wise and gentle in its advice, Daisy is very open (and brave) with the examples she shares from her own life, from money worries and mental health to sexual assault. I didn’t want it to end.

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Well Worth A Read

for grown ups and sudo grown ups alike! Affirming and intelligent insight into how to live a life...which as we all know is a far harder this g to do than it seems.

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A great book.

I really enjoyed this, it wasn’t a patronising list of things to do like most books of this genre. It was genuinely useful. Some great laugh out loud moments and a lot of relatable moments. I couldn’t recommend it enough.

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incredible!

this is a must read/listen for everyone with any mild worries about growing up, no matter what age.

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Must read for every 30 something

If your panicking about life and what you have achieved by 30 then please read this book. It may not be everyone's taste but it will definitely make you feel like your not alone in the mistakes you still make as a 'grown up'

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Okay. Nothing to do with the great gatsby.

I’m going to be honest. I found this book in my unstarted list and I don’t remember putting it there. I’m not one for self help type books so I guess I intended to share it. But it was there and I had a couple of days until my next credit so I hit play.

I got that Daisy was a kind feminist pretty soon in. I got that it was a book about mistakes and how to learn from them too.

I don’t know why I didn’t get until chapter 10 that it was really a book for women. I enjoyed the perspective and I enjoyed the narrative. I enjoyed the performance and I enjoyed the uncomfortable nature that some of the writing left me feeling.

I don’t know how I ended up with this book but I’m so glad I did. Turns out, we are all just kind of winging it really. And you know what? That’s okay.

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Fun and uplifting read

Daisy has some great insights into being a 20-30 year old that I will take away and apply to my everyday life. She is funny and insightful and her story has helped me think through some of my own difficulties that mirror her experiences.
This isn't really a book for someone going through an incredibly difficult time beyond general everyday worries, as someone from the north of England and a working class background, there are some cringy moments listening to a middle class southerner talking about her struggles working as a journalist in London and moving back to her incredibly supportive mother and father's house - it sucked me out of the book many times and made me laugh for the wrong reasons.
That being said, the performance is great and the overall take away from the book is fantastic for women in their mid-twenties. Thank you for sharing your story so far!

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the most refreshing thing you'll ever listen to

where to even start...I was recommended this book by a friend and am so glad I downloaded it. This book is funny, enlightening, will make you smile in all kinds of places where you're not meant to smile (namely, the morning commute), it will make you say 'ohhhhhhhhhh, right yes well I suppose that makes sense now' and it will make you say 'omg! I do that too! I thought I was the only one!'. absolutely amazing ❤️

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Good book

A nice listen, some basic practical advice. A good starting point to self improvement.

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