Tragic and Beautiful

CN. Arranged Marriages, 'Domestic' Slavery, Imprisonment, and Marital Abuse, Addiction (Heroin), Racism

This was another Audible sale punt that I might never have otherwise picked up, but one I am so very glad I did!

China Room is a beautifully told tale of generational trauma across multiple generations (great grandmother and great grandson) and continents (Punjab in South Asia and Britain) following the intertwined narratives of two relatives leading vastly different lives, both complicated by oppression, denigration, and a loss of self/ freedom. While one deals with the violent misogyny, including the abuse and tantamount slavery of being a Punjabi woman in 1929, the other struggles with the racism, othering, and, most tragically, the effect this is having on his father, falling through depression into heroin addiction.

Both narratives are filled with pain, longing, and dreams of a better, more free and love-filled lives with the weight of oppressive culture and colonialism casting bleak shadows over their lives.

There are moments of joy and hope, but Sahota never sugar coats the pain and trauma in this disparate, but tragically connected lives.

The thing that struck me most powerfully about this novel is the suffocating space taken up by so many of the things causing the pain, suffering, and trauma. It is not as if the book shies away from anything, but the point of harm is so personal and individual that a picture of everything not said explicitly is painted in stark negative space, forever looming over everything. The balance and oppressive force of aspects so clear, but rarely directly expressed is truly astounding and powerful for the contrast.

This is absolutely a lot to read in such a small book, but it is incredibly important and rendered with sublime skill and care.

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The degrading way that Indian women were treated less than a hundred years ago.

It is unbelievable to hear how women were regarded like cattle in India less than a hundred years ago. The main character had a totally miserable existence which has it's influence on the future generations. The telling of a parallel story in the present day makes clear the attitudes of many in the UK towards the Asian population.
I bought this book in a sale and it was well worth the money.

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Another hit for Sunjeev Sahota

Sunjeev’s sensitive, accurate account of life in Punjab in the 1930- 40s is an engrossing read. A powerful matriarch and her three sons have their lives take an unexpected turn when the very tradition designed to preserve a fragile honour turns against them. The descendant of this family in the present day returns almost by accident to the place where this drama unfolded giving him meaning and purpose. It is uncomfortable reading about the illiteracy, infanticide and lack of women’s rights in the regions described which are by no means unique in the world. The powerlessness of the female is accepted by almost everyone although that is not the main theme of the novel. Sunjeev conveys these issues with subtlety and the reader is left shocked, moved and yet hopeful.

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Compelling, but rushed at the end

Both the tales in this dual timeline novel are well narrated and quick to draw in the listener, though I feel that the earlier story of three brides for three brothers is the more compelling; from early on there is an atmosphere of foreboding in this tale, making it difficult to stop listening. The first section of the later story (signalled clearly by a different narrator) came as a surprise and actually made me want to know about the three women's lives all the more - in spite of the fact that the late 20th century timeline has its own different ways of engaging the listener. (This may have been Sunjeev Sahita's intention, since, of necessity, the characterisation of much of 1929 branch of the story is not as developed as in the other plotline.)

I enjoyed the description of life in India in both 1929 and 1999 and appreciated the common themes of a need for equality between different groups in society and the desire for individuals to chose their own partners, whether on a long or short term basis. All of this makes for a very positive listen, although I felt that the issues raised were touched on rather than explored - but perhaps a light touch, leaving the listener to ponder as much or as little as they wish, is as valid an approach as any other. However, as I approached the end of the novel, I realised that there was quite a lot to be resolved in both plotlines in a short listening time. This meant I wasn't too surprised to be confronted by two endings that (to me, at least) seemed rather rushed.
Overall 4.5 stars

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Cheating

Storyline was so tragic but imaginable! It also reveals the restraints on women in that culture!

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Fabulous and moving

I really enjoyed this book about what happened to a family in the Punjab many years before, and the shockwaves for their descendants years later. Brilliantly written and especially shocking about the position of women in Punjab society. Very well narrated too. Thoroughly enjoyed it.

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Engaging, astonishing and moving

An intimate glimpse into the customs and traditions of a Punjabi family set in late 1920s India with a poignant link to a young man’s life many years later.
It will make no sense to most of us but perfect sense to those that still hold such stories of their past. Just wonderful!

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Just ok

A quick listen not very gripping. It was just a little story. I couldn’t feel for the character’s.

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Can you ever escape?

This is a tightly paced, succinct novel which in only 5 hours listening combines two vitally real strands spreading across two generations of a Punjabi family.

In a village in rural Punjab in 1929, against an increasingly threatening backdrop of the Independence movement, three young girls are married to the widow Mai’s three sons to produce grandsons who will maintain the family farm. So 15 year-old Mehar finds herself incarcerated and veiled in a farm outbuilding called the China House along with her two new sisters-in-law. The brothers know which girl is his wife, but during the ‘visits’ of their men the girls don’t know which brother is her husband. Suraj knows full well he’s fallen in love with his brother’s wife, but it dawns on Mehar only slowly but fatefully. Such a doomed love cannot thrive and it is this which makes the story age-old, whilst the daily grind of the farm and kitchen work endlessly shifting buffalo excrement, scrubbing and scraping – and the community’s punishments for adultery - are all too earthly and real.

Interwoven are the recollections of a London father-of-three relating how 70 years after the tragedy of his great grandmother Mehar he had spent time in the Punjab. Whilst attempting to recover from his heroin addiction after dropping out of university in Britain he had stayed in his uncle’s own barn, the by then dilapidated China House which he knew featured in family stories about his great grandmother. Forming part of his thoughts as he tries to make sense of his life and heritage, are the sufferings of his father as a Punjabi immigrant in Britain which recall Sahota’s prize-winning second novel The Year of the Runaways reviewed on my Listener Page in 2015, as well as Sahota’s own father.

Sahota deftly handles these themes (of escape and incarceration; belonging and not belonging; the restrictions and poverty of society’s underclass..) within a story of startling reality. It feels like an intensely personal novel which strengthens its impact. Well read, it’s vivid, sober and sombre. And rather sad.

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Utter tosh

I love books set in Asia learning about different cultures etc This book was such a disappointment To begin with three marriages uncertainty over the groom very lame then it jumps to present day a young man with addiction issues l couldn't see the link until it was apparent they where related Terrible storyline Poor characters that l couldn't invest in 5hrs of my life that l won't see agai

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